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By Serge Kreutz (2010)
Alright, I do not suspect that damiana aids menopausal women, and that ginkgo biloba is healthy for the brain of ageing men, and that ginseng is good for the kidneys or the gallbladder of I do not care whom. But from the outlook of sexual enhancement, these herbs are mere placebos.
Sadly, almost all the tongkat ali on the market in the US is wanky. The effective dose of tongkat ali is about 50g of root. Just check out what is sold in US health food stores: 30 capsules of 300 miligram root powder. Makes me laugh. This is the equivalent of 9g of tongkat ali in a bottle. Taking all these capsules in one go will still be under dose.
If root powder, or chipped roots, were to be consumed, they’d have to be cooked for at least half an hour to free the alkaloids that creates the sexual enhancement qualities of tongkat ali.
Firstly, what tongkat ali is not. it's not a replacement for sildenafil citrate for many men beyond 50, who typically have weak penile plumbing, like me.
But sildenafil citrate is a bore. It helps erections upon tactile stimulation of the penis, but typically, leaves libido trailing far behind.
Commonly, older men cannot generate great sex for two reasons: weak and leaking penile plumbing (inability to initiate or maintain an erection) and rusty wiring (lack of libido, weak orgasms). To negotiate with just 1 of the 2 aspects [won't do] will not work if one is after the same quality of sex one enjoyed in younger years.
It’s been my long held opinion that a dual [approach is necessary] catch-up is essential: fix the plumbing (with sildenafil citrate, yohimbine, or alprostadil get), and brush up the wiring.
There are fewer options for the wiring than there are for the plumbing.
Cabergoline and [some other] another dopaminergics work almost solely on the wiring. They aid erections only for the short periods of time during which they also make tired and nauseate. After that, they have a particular impact only on libido.
Cabergoline, more than any other substance, makes men good lovers. It does so by greatly prolonging the time frame for male sexual conduct.
Tongkat ali also shortens the refractory period, but it does not make men better lovers.
Why?
I have to illustrate this in pictures.
Whenever I'm on cabergoline, I’m pretty delicate to the situation. I [could never] couldn’t sleep with a prostitute on cabergoline. I'd have my problems with a prostitution setting in [an entirely sober condition] a completely wasted state, too. But on cabergoline, it is even bad. If I do not feel that my female partner is riding on the same wave of sexual excitement, I drop my attention real quick, and in spite of 50 miligram of Viagra in my veins, any erection will quickly collapse.
I have not had any sympathy for prostitution settings for more than twenty years. I often ask myself how other men could feel any desire or excitement with a woman who (openly) is only after your cash. Certainly, after using tongkat ali extract for awhile, I get the idea. Sex on tongkat ali is much more straight than in any other condition.
Actually, on tongkat ali, my sexual encounters are the same when I was in my late teens (!).
At the age of 18 / 19, I, with a group of friends, every Saturday evening went girl hunting. This was in provincial Germany in the early 70s. I did not care much, nor did my friends, if our prey was gorgeous or even if they’re really interested in sex. We just take whatever girls want to come along, beautiful or ugly. Anyway, if the one you got was ugly, you could always turn off the light.
And if she was not truly prepared from the start, you could always try ask her for at least a hand job. "Touch me here, just for a moment." or "Just let me put my hand inside your blouse for a moment."
Or one can try to squeeze one's hand in between her legs. It often was an funny position. Either, the girls did feel sexual pleasure (as could be told from their vaginal wetness), but they did not want to [ come out easy (in order to protect their reputation, of because it was a principle never to go beyond kissing on a first date).
Never mind. Ugly or beautiful. Wet or dry. For me, it was always good sex (even if for her it wasn't really sex at all).
It was not the same some ten years later, and until I went on the tongkat ali trial.
Sex with tongkat ali feels more straight (and can I say: more masculine?) than it has any time since my late teens. And it’s this straightness, which more than anything else typifies tongkat ali.
Is this because of elevated testosterone levels?
For me, sex is much shorter on tongkat ali than it’s on cabergoline or any other dopaminergic. Which does not mean that I would not get excited? I surely do.
Tongkat ali, for me, also has a result on erections, though not as a facilitator in integrity (for that, I use sildenafil citrate). But tongkat ali makes erections tenser.
It’s not only erections but also the whole body. On tongkat ali, I always feel [inclined] prepared to clinch my teeth. I also acquire a trend for subduing gestures towards women. And I hold them with a much tight grip.
After taking my dose of tongkat ali, I am more erect to create fantasies of being dominant to women than I would be in a sober state. And yes, penetration can be forceful.
No, the tongkat ali won't turn me into a rapist. I’ve enough control over myself to get rid in this kind of trouble. But sexual [encounters always] meetings likely to happen on 2 levels the actual and the imaginative one. And on the imaginative level, tongkat ali makes sex more violent.
What else?
Better ejaculatory power, multiple orgasms, and feeling very male.
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